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When no one hears your cries, or listens to your pain, it is very difficult to heal. There are 2 sets of pain going on, one for whatever happened, and the other for not having a way to release the pain, and be hugged, loved, and heard.
The longer it goes on, the harder it becomes to figure out.
Children suffer from verbal abuse, physical abuse, rape, pedophilia, divorce, parents that fight, parents that cheat on each other, single parent, you name it. And in the middle is you. Born, here, and needs not being met. This is how the hole in your soul is created.
1st video on closing the hole in your soul
https://youtu.be/6LnOR2_EYlk
2nd video
https://youtu.be/sVdrT3NsIIE
The best listener of your own pain is YOU. You know how you hurt, how you suffered, and what it takes to make you feel better. We are very injured in society & we somehow think that when we tell everyone, confront our perpetrators, that we will get the magic answers that we are seeking. It rarely happens. Those bad answers only compound our pain, and oddly, the last person we listen to is ourselves.
People all over social media are putting out their stories and pain, in order to be validated and heard, and sadly that then makes you a prisoner to your story & pain, and once you do get to move past it, others are flashing it in your face, as a "remember when" story.
People fear healing, more than suffering. They suffer about 25 times more than they need to, and drag it around year after year, everywhere they go.
People do not realize or care that they either contaminate any communication or relationship, even cyber ones, they wear their pain like a 10 foot badge as they enter a room.
It's so much better to heal and come to terms w/ what you actually need. All people that are survivors need to release, pain, fear, self loathing, alienation, feeling worthless, feeling chosen, feeling isolated, jealous of others, and most of all, like screaming their story from the roof tops.
All of the videos on here about rape, pedophilia, incest, toxic parents, toxic people, are FREE and the best information that has ever been gathered.
I have healed many thousand people, and they have healed themselves.
Your job is to heal yourself. If you do not, you can't hear others, you mistreat others, you do very broken things.
Some people try to re-offend, find a victim, demean others, act superior when they really feel inferior, they mistreat spouses, children, workers, strangers, all because someone never heard them, & they don't feel validated, so they can't hear anyone else.
You need to validate yourself, and learn to travel well. And when you do, something amazing happens, you start to meet better and more healed people, and rise. And you start to see a new purpose, and a new way to look at things.
If you consider that what happened to you, is the worst thing on earth, you have no way to rise
At Rock bottom, you have to look up, you have to acknowledge that you did survive, and did suffer, and have to figure out how to climb, and that's on your own. It is not dependent on if you "tell your story" or have others acknowledge your abuse.
The more people you tell, the longer it stays with you. People feel very free on a day when you are happy and not thinking about your abuse, to ask you, so how was the divorce? or how are you healing from rape? Just like that. And that is so detrimental to your balance. Why do they do that? Because they are taking your inventory instead of their own.
You also need to change the narrative of what you tell yourself. You need to put blame on your perpetrator and take it off your shoulders. But you cannot stay stuck in blame. You have to hold them accountable, and then release yourself.
If you stay stuck in blame, you give up your power to change
https://youtu.be/NyPd7p2LWCM
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