Healing Ourselves As Adult & Children

Wednesday, May 1, 2019

Sororities & Fraternities - Don't Join Them, Don't Aspire To Be One Of Them

DO NOT JOIN SORORITIES, OR FRATERNITIES

KEEP YOURSELF SAFE AND WHOLE, AND NOT SIGNING UP FOR
A PHONY GROUP TO BE PART OF

this school had a "rape attic"

https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2019/04/30/swarthmore-suspends-fraternity-following-outrage-rape-attic-document/3634109002/

Ohio
https://www.thelantern.com/2017/11/ohio-state-interfraternity-council-chapters-suspended/

Greek Life Suspensions - due to death and bullying
https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation-now/2017/11/22/greek-life-suspensions-keep-coming-college-campuses-heres-all-them-2017/875699001/

Saturday, December 29, 2018

Finding Good, Love, And Kindness Heals Us In An Everlasting Way

GOOD THINGS HAPPEN ALL OF THE TIME,

WE NEED TO CELEBRATE THEM & FIND JOY

Sending home babies in Christmas stockings, priceless

Baby pacifies baby

https://twitter.com/kwilli1046/status/1079211758823325701

baby boy feeds baby birds

https://twitter.com/kwilli1046/status/1078630576834441216

parents adopting a boy

https://twitter.com/kwilli1046/status/1078013188237680641

Kindergarten greetings - meets classmates

4 Year olds start their day w/ kindness

https://www.facebook.com/tennessean/videos/203410027223668/

https://www.wthr.com/article/texas-kindergartners-greet-classmates-every-morning-with-hugs-handshakes

https://www.facebook.com/MrsLoftisKinderClass/videos/337988436951960/

https://www.facebook.com/InTheKnowByAOL/videos/249438119064716/

https://texashillcountry.com/methodist-hospital-newborns-stockings/?fbclid=IwAR1l5EsHluYLfHg1NqpDrEaENWA2pPJ2nItzlsnu7tdTDX5lq1A6DCsWZqY

Good Morning in the snow

https://twitter.com/kwilli1046/status/1076784673920073733

Bus Driver puts aside money for 70 Christmas presents

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/bus-driver-put-aside-money-paychecks-get-christmas-presents-70-students-230457178.html

Santa Clause Knows sign language

https://twitter.com/Trump454545/status/1076869937719885824

Star Spangled Baby - Priceless

https://twitter.com/Jamierodr10/status/1072577805035233285

Celebrating A New Baby

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/family-apos-hilarious-christmas-card-165600648.html

Homeless man living in a hotel, bought a bicycle for a toy drive

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/homeless-man-terminal-cancer-donates-toy-drive-probably-going-last-christmas-164342474.html

Giving a toy to a disabled child - priceless

https://twitter.com/kwilli1046/status/1071406215467548673

Kid Rock pays off the Layaway tabs of 350 people at Walmart

http://www.fox10phoenix.com/news/kid-rock-pays-off-layaway-for-350-at-nashville-walmart

As a man proposes, he drops the ring down a drain in NY, the cops find the ring, and want to give it to the couple, priceless

https://twitter.com/breaking9111/status/1068995393856446465

Men help this woman who was paying for gas with pennies, (her husband had just died)

https://twitter.com/kwilli1046/status/1055528063906267138

Man rescues wounded man, in traffic

https://twitter.com/RealJamesWoods/status/1067147721000144897

Cat Loves Piano

https://twitter.com/redpillbabe/status/1065869093180329984

Airplane full of singers sings "Stand By Me" Priceless

https://twitter.com/RyanAFournier/status/1065671534201712641

Sweet toddler sings Patriotic Song & Pledge of Allegiance
https://twitter.com/ChristusPatriot/status/1060363812245667840

Bear Hug
https://twitter.com/President1Trump/status/1007744989957369857

Butterfly lands on a dog's nose - so cute
https://twitter.com/Love_The_Donald/status/1063679643960541184

Man gives his shirt to an elderly man, on the subway, follows it with giving him a hat
https://twitter.com/Jamierodr10/status/1063582052203839494

Happy Snowman

Teaching a tiny toddler to pray w his dad, too cute for words
https://twitter.com/ReneeCarrollAZ/status/1063779844591300608

Good Things Are Vital for our beliefs and to heal our souls, we need to laugh, cry, smile, celebrate, and mourn.

We need to see good, and spread good, as well as celebrate all good that is created.

Baby Drummer - born to bang on the drums - priceless
https://twitter.com/val_fina/status/988484245160169474

Speech from a 3rd grade dropout at gradution
https://youtu.be/Bg_Q7KYWG1g

Dog Rescue from a Fireman
https://twitter.com/FoxNews/status/943035686910812160

Helping the needy at Christmas
https://twitter.com/President1Trump/status/933071437526716418

Little Girl Thinks Man in the store is Santa
https://youtu.be/2-Sw86fddpY

Blue Lives Matter
https://twitter.com/REALtrumpbureau/status/933147409663844352

These people hired a dog sitter instead of leaving their dog at a vet, it was priceless
http://twitter-trending.video/details.php?news=47&tw=1

Lost photos reunited
https://www.liftable.com/james-russo/marine-veteran-reunited-lost-war-photos-9-years-camera-stolen/?utm_source=Email&utm_medium=rightalerts&utm_campaign=dailyam&utm_content=ttp

helping someone w/ an arm injury
https://twitter.com/FoxNews/status/934970810250309632

man saves wild rabbit during Calif fire
https://twitter.com/Breaking911/status/938657291049623554

100 Year Old, - Still Sewing
https://www.westernjournalism.com/100-yr-old-spends-days-left-earth-sewing-machine-keep-eyes-holds/?utm_source=Email&utm_medium=rightalerts&utm_campaign=dailypm&utm_content=ttp

A little boy & His Dreams
https://twitter.com/NIVIsa4031/status/940990001453699073

Teenager pushes someone across the finish line
https://twitter.com/foxandfriends/status/940976618062753792

Deer Just walking into a store
https://twitter.com/FoxNews/status/941246385705304064

Airport Joy
https://twitter.com/FoxNews/status/942961456642789377

Tweet to Roseanne
https://twitter.com/Loveeveryone88/status/942962933570646016

Pitcher Millionaire Donates Huge Mansion to children w/ special needs
http://www.theblaze.com/news/2017/12/18/star-pitcher-gives-away-9-75-million-mansion-land-to-christian-camp-for-kids-with-special-needs

Long Lost Brothers Meet at College
https://www.yahoo.com/gma/long-lost-brothers-discover-other-same-college-disbelief-144304896--abc-news-topstories.html

NFL Players Tips all staff $100 Each !!! Very kind
https://www.liftable.com/jasmineallen/nfl-player-gets-bill-asks-manager-many-people-still-working-gives-tip/?utm_source=Email&utm_medium=rightalerts&utm_campaign=dailyam&utm_content=ttp

Man who trains his amazing parrot
https://twitter.com/anotherworld010/status/978996441858367489

5 year old singing w/ her dad
https://youtu.be/Waitmz6C100

Lions remember their owner 7 years later
https://twitter.com/IsraelUSAforevr/status/1002365781601128448

Man saves a baby squirrel from dying
https://twitter.com/HealingMB/status/1005674767196749824

Health Ranger, Living Well, What To Watch Out For

Dancing Doctor, dances w/ all of his patients to cheer them up,

priceless

https://twitter.com/Jamierodr10/status/1079164143695990787

Toothpaste & shampoo are altering

https://www.naturalnews.com/2018-12-28-chemicals-in-shampoo-and-toothpaste-are-altering-hormones-in-adolescents.html?fbclid=IwAR3kc-JGJSeoxstT2Ar46By3ZEpKY8DRPUGeDofhzICcFhKuYWemQ26vSoE

Male Sperm count decreases by half, this is by design

https://www.newstarget.com/2017-09-28-humanity-alert-sperm-count-plunges-59-due-to-mass-chemical-feminization-of-men.html

Is Cottage Cheese good for you? Yes

https://www.healthiguide.com/nutrition/is-cottage-cheese-good-for-you/

Toxic and disease database

https://www.healthandenvironment.org/our-work/toxicant-and-disease-database/

20 unhealthiest foods

https://www.healthiguide.com/health/top-20-unhealthiest-foods-on-the-planet/5/

Chewing Gum

https://www.healthiguide.com/nutrition/love-chewing-gum-heres-why-you-should-stop/

Benefit of eggs

https://www.healthiguide.com/nutrition/7-egg-dishes-ranked-by-weight-loss-effectiveness/2/

Blood pressure medicines linked to cancer

https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/more-blood-pressure-drugs-recalled-021000884.html

Chocolate and the link to diabetes

https://www.lifetothefullest.abbott/en/articles/dark-chocolate-and-diabetes.html?sf160374465=1

Health Ranger
https://twitter.com/HealthRanger/status/1041802760419729408

Benefits from walking
https://www.healthiguide.com/health/benefits-of-walking/

Skin care from rashes and eczema
https://naturallydaily.com/get-rid-of-eczema/

what's in a hot dog
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2584242/Whats-REALLY-hotdog-You-never-eat-one-watching-this.html

What's in gummy candy and Swedish fish?
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/how-gummy-candy-is-made_n_57c8380be4b0a22de094450e

Kraft, Pepsi & Nestle using aborted baby parts in food
https://drrichswier.com/2015/07/19/kraft-pepsi-and-nestle-the-using-aborted-babies-for-flavor-additives/

Companies saying they do not use baby parts in food, however, I have found different articles that say they do, I am still looking for them, as I start over this blog
http://gawker.com/5879254/which-companies-are-using-aborted-human-fetuses-in-their-food

Taking away skin itch w/ natural oils
https://www.naturalnews.com/2018-11-21-make-your-own-natural-anti-itch-spray-using-essential-oils.html

Natural Remedies to Help You Sleep & Feel Better

If people exercise, it takes down anxiety, anything from swimming, walking, biking, etc. It helps our heart rates, and lets you sleep better without medication. It lets you live longer & better, from moving your body and joints.

10 Vitamins to help you sleep better
https://www.healthiguide.com/nutrition/cant-sleep-try-these-10-vitamins/3/

Friday, December 28, 2018

How To Avoid Ruining Your Life In Your 20's

With social media, it's imperative that kids act well, and don't do things that are really out there and crazy. Don't take selfies of drunken parties and post them

Be careful of your social media resume, and understand, it's there forever. People can dig up things you say about people you like, or dislike, and swear words.

What you say in private, you need to make sure that no one is recording it.

You need to be very careful who you hang around with, and your need to tell everyone your family story and your history.

Your history and private life is your right to keep private. Your mistakes should be yours to make, and not something the whole world knows about. Keep all that you can off social media and instagram

Make a photo album of your life, not a virtual photo album

Try not to judge and make judgments of others, because you don't like being judged.

You need to not seek fame, or huge fortune, because that comes with more downsides than you know, you need to find how who you are and where you belong. Don't compare yourself to anyone.

Do not bully, even if you were bullied, you need to heal from old pain, so you don't carry it around.

It's not a good goal to think that the world owes you, it's more important and a more successful life when you learn how to give, and be in a kind place.

Spend as little time on social media as possible, use it for short contacts, and news, and then go live your life.

Whatever your interests are, the less time on social media, the better.

Here is an amazing article (it's religious) but also very helpful about how young people do in fact ruin their lives in their 20's and have very backwards expectations.

When we were young, way before social media, we could make mistakes that no one saw, and we had to learn to forgive ourselves for them. We all make massive mistakes, it's part of life.

If your parents were strict, the first thing you want to do as an adult, is break out of rules and their control, causing you to make really bad decisions. So be careful, and be good to yourself, and try to keep a clean social media resume, so it does not haunt you all through your life.

https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/how-to-ruin-your-life-in-your-twenties

Thursday, December 27, 2018

Raising Our Own Self - Esteem

Signs Of Low Self - Esteem
https://www.self-confidence.co.uk/articles/top-ten-facts-about-low-self-esteem/

When No One Listens To Your Pain

This tweet and post is from a 14 year old - wow words of wisdom
https://twitter.com/LoveBling6/status/1124057113947516928

When no one hears your cries, or listens to your pain, it is very difficult to heal. There are 2 sets of pain going on, one for whatever happened, and the other for not having a way to release the pain, and be hugged, loved, and heard.

The longer it goes on, the harder it becomes to figure out.

Children suffer from verbal abuse, physical abuse, rape, pedophilia, divorce, parents that fight, parents that cheat on each other, single parent, you name it. And in the middle is you. Born, here, and needs not being met. This is how the hole in your soul is created.

1st video on closing the hole in your soul
https://youtu.be/6LnOR2_EYlk

2nd video
https://youtu.be/sVdrT3NsIIE

The best listener of your own pain is YOU. You know how you hurt, how you suffered, and what it takes to make you feel better. We are very injured in society & we somehow think that when we tell everyone, confront our perpetrators, that we will get the magic answers that we are seeking. It rarely happens. Those bad answers only compound our pain, and oddly, the last person we listen to is ourselves.

People all over social media are putting out their stories and pain, in order to be validated and heard, and sadly that then makes you a prisoner to your story & pain, and once you do get to move past it, others are flashing it in your face, as a "remember when" story.

People fear healing, more than suffering. They suffer about 25 times more than they need to, and drag it around year after year, everywhere they go.

People do not realize or care that they either contaminate any communication or relationship, even cyber ones, they wear their pain like a 10 foot badge as they enter a room.

It's so much better to heal and come to terms w/ what you actually need. All people that are survivors need to release, pain, fear, self loathing, alienation, feeling worthless, feeling chosen, feeling isolated, jealous of others, and most of all, like screaming their story from the roof tops.

All of the videos on here about rape, pedophilia, incest, toxic parents, toxic people, are FREE and the best information that has ever been gathered.

I have healed many thousand people, and they have healed themselves.

Your job is to heal yourself. If you do not, you can't hear others, you mistreat others, you do very broken things.

Some people try to re-offend, find a victim, demean others, act superior when they really feel inferior, they mistreat spouses, children, workers, strangers, all because someone never heard them, & they don't feel validated, so they can't hear anyone else.

You need to validate yourself, and learn to travel well. And when you do, something amazing happens, you start to meet better and more healed people, and rise. And you start to see a new purpose, and a new way to look at things.

If you consider that what happened to you, is the worst thing on earth, you have no way to rise

At Rock bottom, you have to look up, you have to acknowledge that you did survive, and did suffer, and have to figure out how to climb, and that's on your own. It is not dependent on if you "tell your story" or have others acknowledge your abuse.

The more people you tell, the longer it stays with you. People feel very free on a day when you are happy and not thinking about your abuse, to ask you, so how was the divorce? or how are you healing from rape? Just like that. And that is so detrimental to your balance. Why do they do that? Because they are taking your inventory instead of their own.

You also need to change the narrative of what you tell yourself. You need to put blame on your perpetrator and take it off your shoulders. But you cannot stay stuck in blame. You have to hold them accountable, and then release yourself.

If you stay stuck in blame, you give up your power to change
https://youtu.be/NyPd7p2LWCM