Healing Ourselves As Adult & Children

Wednesday, May 1, 2019

Sororities & Fraternities - Don't Join Them, Don't Aspire To Be One Of Them

DO NOT JOIN SORORITIES, OR FRATERNITIES

KEEP YOURSELF SAFE AND WHOLE, AND NOT SIGNING UP FOR
A PHONY GROUP TO BE PART OF

this school had a "rape attic"

https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2019/04/30/swarthmore-suspends-fraternity-following-outrage-rape-attic-document/3634109002/

Ohio
https://www.thelantern.com/2017/11/ohio-state-interfraternity-council-chapters-suspended/

Greek Life Suspensions - due to death and bullying
https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation-now/2017/11/22/greek-life-suspensions-keep-coming-college-campuses-heres-all-them-2017/875699001/

Saturday, December 29, 2018

Finding Good, Love, And Kindness Heals Us In An Everlasting Way

GOOD THINGS HAPPEN ALL OF THE TIME,

WE NEED TO CELEBRATE THEM & FIND JOY

Sending home babies in Christmas stockings, priceless

Baby pacifies baby

https://twitter.com/kwilli1046/status/1079211758823325701

baby boy feeds baby birds

https://twitter.com/kwilli1046/status/1078630576834441216

parents adopting a boy

https://twitter.com/kwilli1046/status/1078013188237680641

Kindergarten greetings - meets classmates

4 Year olds start their day w/ kindness

https://www.facebook.com/tennessean/videos/203410027223668/

https://www.wthr.com/article/texas-kindergartners-greet-classmates-every-morning-with-hugs-handshakes

https://www.facebook.com/MrsLoftisKinderClass/videos/337988436951960/

https://www.facebook.com/InTheKnowByAOL/videos/249438119064716/

https://texashillcountry.com/methodist-hospital-newborns-stockings/?fbclid=IwAR1l5EsHluYLfHg1NqpDrEaENWA2pPJ2nItzlsnu7tdTDX5lq1A6DCsWZqY

Good Morning in the snow

https://twitter.com/kwilli1046/status/1076784673920073733

Bus Driver puts aside money for 70 Christmas presents

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/bus-driver-put-aside-money-paychecks-get-christmas-presents-70-students-230457178.html

Santa Clause Knows sign language

https://twitter.com/Trump454545/status/1076869937719885824

Star Spangled Baby - Priceless

https://twitter.com/Jamierodr10/status/1072577805035233285

Celebrating A New Baby

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/family-apos-hilarious-christmas-card-165600648.html

Homeless man living in a hotel, bought a bicycle for a toy drive

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/homeless-man-terminal-cancer-donates-toy-drive-probably-going-last-christmas-164342474.html

Giving a toy to a disabled child - priceless

https://twitter.com/kwilli1046/status/1071406215467548673

Kid Rock pays off the Layaway tabs of 350 people at Walmart

http://www.fox10phoenix.com/news/kid-rock-pays-off-layaway-for-350-at-nashville-walmart

As a man proposes, he drops the ring down a drain in NY, the cops find the ring, and want to give it to the couple, priceless

https://twitter.com/breaking9111/status/1068995393856446465

Men help this woman who was paying for gas with pennies, (her husband had just died)

https://twitter.com/kwilli1046/status/1055528063906267138

Man rescues wounded man, in traffic

https://twitter.com/RealJamesWoods/status/1067147721000144897

Cat Loves Piano

https://twitter.com/redpillbabe/status/1065869093180329984

Airplane full of singers sings "Stand By Me" Priceless

https://twitter.com/RyanAFournier/status/1065671534201712641

Sweet toddler sings Patriotic Song & Pledge of Allegiance
https://twitter.com/ChristusPatriot/status/1060363812245667840

Bear Hug
https://twitter.com/President1Trump/status/1007744989957369857

Butterfly lands on a dog's nose - so cute
https://twitter.com/Love_The_Donald/status/1063679643960541184

Man gives his shirt to an elderly man, on the subway, follows it with giving him a hat
https://twitter.com/Jamierodr10/status/1063582052203839494

Happy Snowman

Teaching a tiny toddler to pray w his dad, too cute for words
https://twitter.com/ReneeCarrollAZ/status/1063779844591300608

Good Things Are Vital for our beliefs and to heal our souls, we need to laugh, cry, smile, celebrate, and mourn.

We need to see good, and spread good, as well as celebrate all good that is created.

Baby Drummer - born to bang on the drums - priceless
https://twitter.com/val_fina/status/988484245160169474

Speech from a 3rd grade dropout at gradution
https://youtu.be/Bg_Q7KYWG1g

Dog Rescue from a Fireman
https://twitter.com/FoxNews/status/943035686910812160

Helping the needy at Christmas
https://twitter.com/President1Trump/status/933071437526716418

Little Girl Thinks Man in the store is Santa
https://youtu.be/2-Sw86fddpY

Blue Lives Matter
https://twitter.com/REALtrumpbureau/status/933147409663844352

These people hired a dog sitter instead of leaving their dog at a vet, it was priceless
http://twitter-trending.video/details.php?news=47&tw=1

Lost photos reunited
https://www.liftable.com/james-russo/marine-veteran-reunited-lost-war-photos-9-years-camera-stolen/?utm_source=Email&utm_medium=rightalerts&utm_campaign=dailyam&utm_content=ttp

helping someone w/ an arm injury
https://twitter.com/FoxNews/status/934970810250309632

man saves wild rabbit during Calif fire
https://twitter.com/Breaking911/status/938657291049623554

100 Year Old, - Still Sewing
https://www.westernjournalism.com/100-yr-old-spends-days-left-earth-sewing-machine-keep-eyes-holds/?utm_source=Email&utm_medium=rightalerts&utm_campaign=dailypm&utm_content=ttp

A little boy & His Dreams
https://twitter.com/NIVIsa4031/status/940990001453699073

Teenager pushes someone across the finish line
https://twitter.com/foxandfriends/status/940976618062753792

Deer Just walking into a store
https://twitter.com/FoxNews/status/941246385705304064

Airport Joy
https://twitter.com/FoxNews/status/942961456642789377

Tweet to Roseanne
https://twitter.com/Loveeveryone88/status/942962933570646016

Pitcher Millionaire Donates Huge Mansion to children w/ special needs
http://www.theblaze.com/news/2017/12/18/star-pitcher-gives-away-9-75-million-mansion-land-to-christian-camp-for-kids-with-special-needs

Long Lost Brothers Meet at College
https://www.yahoo.com/gma/long-lost-brothers-discover-other-same-college-disbelief-144304896--abc-news-topstories.html

NFL Players Tips all staff $100 Each !!! Very kind
https://www.liftable.com/jasmineallen/nfl-player-gets-bill-asks-manager-many-people-still-working-gives-tip/?utm_source=Email&utm_medium=rightalerts&utm_campaign=dailyam&utm_content=ttp

Man who trains his amazing parrot
https://twitter.com/anotherworld010/status/978996441858367489

5 year old singing w/ her dad
https://youtu.be/Waitmz6C100

Lions remember their owner 7 years later
https://twitter.com/IsraelUSAforevr/status/1002365781601128448

Man saves a baby squirrel from dying
https://twitter.com/HealingMB/status/1005674767196749824

Health Ranger, Living Well, What To Watch Out For

Dancing Doctor, dances w/ all of his patients to cheer them up,

priceless

https://twitter.com/Jamierodr10/status/1079164143695990787

Toothpaste & shampoo are altering

https://www.naturalnews.com/2018-12-28-chemicals-in-shampoo-and-toothpaste-are-altering-hormones-in-adolescents.html?fbclid=IwAR3kc-JGJSeoxstT2Ar46By3ZEpKY8DRPUGeDofhzICcFhKuYWemQ26vSoE

Male Sperm count decreases by half, this is by design

https://www.newstarget.com/2017-09-28-humanity-alert-sperm-count-plunges-59-due-to-mass-chemical-feminization-of-men.html

Is Cottage Cheese good for you? Yes

https://www.healthiguide.com/nutrition/is-cottage-cheese-good-for-you/

Toxic and disease database

https://www.healthandenvironment.org/our-work/toxicant-and-disease-database/

20 unhealthiest foods

https://www.healthiguide.com/health/top-20-unhealthiest-foods-on-the-planet/5/

Chewing Gum

https://www.healthiguide.com/nutrition/love-chewing-gum-heres-why-you-should-stop/

Benefit of eggs

https://www.healthiguide.com/nutrition/7-egg-dishes-ranked-by-weight-loss-effectiveness/2/

Blood pressure medicines linked to cancer

https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/more-blood-pressure-drugs-recalled-021000884.html

Chocolate and the link to diabetes

https://www.lifetothefullest.abbott/en/articles/dark-chocolate-and-diabetes.html?sf160374465=1

Health Ranger
https://twitter.com/HealthRanger/status/1041802760419729408

Benefits from walking
https://www.healthiguide.com/health/benefits-of-walking/

Skin care from rashes and eczema
https://naturallydaily.com/get-rid-of-eczema/

what's in a hot dog
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2584242/Whats-REALLY-hotdog-You-never-eat-one-watching-this.html

What's in gummy candy and Swedish fish?
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/how-gummy-candy-is-made_n_57c8380be4b0a22de094450e

Kraft, Pepsi & Nestle using aborted baby parts in food
https://drrichswier.com/2015/07/19/kraft-pepsi-and-nestle-the-using-aborted-babies-for-flavor-additives/

Companies saying they do not use baby parts in food, however, I have found different articles that say they do, I am still looking for them, as I start over this blog
http://gawker.com/5879254/which-companies-are-using-aborted-human-fetuses-in-their-food

Taking away skin itch w/ natural oils
https://www.naturalnews.com/2018-11-21-make-your-own-natural-anti-itch-spray-using-essential-oils.html

Natural Remedies to Help You Sleep & Feel Better

If people exercise, it takes down anxiety, anything from swimming, walking, biking, etc. It helps our heart rates, and lets you sleep better without medication. It lets you live longer & better, from moving your body and joints.

10 Vitamins to help you sleep better
https://www.healthiguide.com/nutrition/cant-sleep-try-these-10-vitamins/3/

Friday, December 28, 2018

How To Avoid Ruining Your Life In Your 20's

With social media, it's imperative that kids act well, and don't do things that are really out there and crazy. Don't take selfies of drunken parties and post them

Be careful of your social media resume, and understand, it's there forever. People can dig up things you say about people you like, or dislike, and swear words.

What you say in private, you need to make sure that no one is recording it.

You need to be very careful who you hang around with, and your need to tell everyone your family story and your history.

Your history and private life is your right to keep private. Your mistakes should be yours to make, and not something the whole world knows about. Keep all that you can off social media and instagram

Make a photo album of your life, not a virtual photo album

Try not to judge and make judgments of others, because you don't like being judged.

You need to not seek fame, or huge fortune, because that comes with more downsides than you know, you need to find how who you are and where you belong. Don't compare yourself to anyone.

Do not bully, even if you were bullied, you need to heal from old pain, so you don't carry it around.

It's not a good goal to think that the world owes you, it's more important and a more successful life when you learn how to give, and be in a kind place.

Spend as little time on social media as possible, use it for short contacts, and news, and then go live your life.

Whatever your interests are, the less time on social media, the better.

Here is an amazing article (it's religious) but also very helpful about how young people do in fact ruin their lives in their 20's and have very backwards expectations.

When we were young, way before social media, we could make mistakes that no one saw, and we had to learn to forgive ourselves for them. We all make massive mistakes, it's part of life.

If your parents were strict, the first thing you want to do as an adult, is break out of rules and their control, causing you to make really bad decisions. So be careful, and be good to yourself, and try to keep a clean social media resume, so it does not haunt you all through your life.

https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/how-to-ruin-your-life-in-your-twenties

Thursday, December 27, 2018

Raising Our Own Self - Esteem

Signs Of Low Self - Esteem
https://www.self-confidence.co.uk/articles/top-ten-facts-about-low-self-esteem/

When No One Listens To Your Pain

This tweet and post is from a 14 year old - wow words of wisdom
https://twitter.com/LoveBling6/status/1124057113947516928

When no one hears your cries, or listens to your pain, it is very difficult to heal. There are 2 sets of pain going on, one for whatever happened, and the other for not having a way to release the pain, and be hugged, loved, and heard.

The longer it goes on, the harder it becomes to figure out.

Children suffer from verbal abuse, physical abuse, rape, pedophilia, divorce, parents that fight, parents that cheat on each other, single parent, you name it. And in the middle is you. Born, here, and needs not being met. This is how the hole in your soul is created.

1st video on closing the hole in your soul
https://youtu.be/6LnOR2_EYlk

2nd video
https://youtu.be/sVdrT3NsIIE

The best listener of your own pain is YOU. You know how you hurt, how you suffered, and what it takes to make you feel better. We are very injured in society & we somehow think that when we tell everyone, confront our perpetrators, that we will get the magic answers that we are seeking. It rarely happens. Those bad answers only compound our pain, and oddly, the last person we listen to is ourselves.

People all over social media are putting out their stories and pain, in order to be validated and heard, and sadly that then makes you a prisoner to your story & pain, and once you do get to move past it, others are flashing it in your face, as a "remember when" story.

People fear healing, more than suffering. They suffer about 25 times more than they need to, and drag it around year after year, everywhere they go.

People do not realize or care that they either contaminate any communication or relationship, even cyber ones, they wear their pain like a 10 foot badge as they enter a room.

It's so much better to heal and come to terms w/ what you actually need. All people that are survivors need to release, pain, fear, self loathing, alienation, feeling worthless, feeling chosen, feeling isolated, jealous of others, and most of all, like screaming their story from the roof tops.

All of the videos on here about rape, pedophilia, incest, toxic parents, toxic people, are FREE and the best information that has ever been gathered.

I have healed many thousand people, and they have healed themselves.

Your job is to heal yourself. If you do not, you can't hear others, you mistreat others, you do very broken things.

Some people try to re-offend, find a victim, demean others, act superior when they really feel inferior, they mistreat spouses, children, workers, strangers, all because someone never heard them, & they don't feel validated, so they can't hear anyone else.

You need to validate yourself, and learn to travel well. And when you do, something amazing happens, you start to meet better and more healed people, and rise. And you start to see a new purpose, and a new way to look at things.

If you consider that what happened to you, is the worst thing on earth, you have no way to rise

At Rock bottom, you have to look up, you have to acknowledge that you did survive, and did suffer, and have to figure out how to climb, and that's on your own. It is not dependent on if you "tell your story" or have others acknowledge your abuse.

The more people you tell, the longer it stays with you. People feel very free on a day when you are happy and not thinking about your abuse, to ask you, so how was the divorce? or how are you healing from rape? Just like that. And that is so detrimental to your balance. Why do they do that? Because they are taking your inventory instead of their own.

You also need to change the narrative of what you tell yourself. You need to put blame on your perpetrator and take it off your shoulders. But you cannot stay stuck in blame. You have to hold them accountable, and then release yourself.

If you stay stuck in blame, you give up your power to change
https://youtu.be/NyPd7p2LWCM

Tuesday, December 19, 2017

Finding Our Own Self Worth

We Have to find our own self worth, it is not measured by titles, it's what is inside us, not our job title

Watch this video, our worth is measured by who we are, inside, The videos are here to help you, take the time to heal yourself in private

https://youtu.be/_CRSesyfvKg

Friday, December 1, 2017

Toxic Mom, Toxic People, Toxic Dad, Starting Over After Abuse

Toxic Moms
https://youtu.be/4naFffd3ngg

Toxic People
https://youtu.be/DMrEtMtoIhA

How To Leave An Abusive Life & Start Over
https://youtu.be/Y1Kc4qqgUtE

Thursday, November 30, 2017

Recovery & Healing Videos - From Pedophilia, Rape, Incest,

Rape is everywhere, and can happen to anyone. Too many people put themselves at risk and travel to other countries, where they are not even protected, this just happened in Spain to an exchange student
https://twitter.com/sotiridi/status/1078370405835001856

An American women exchange student who went to #Madrid in #Spain after going out, got brutally beaten and raped by an migrant! The suspect kept beating her and then raped her until she decided to play dead, that is when the suspect left, and she made a run for it!

Ending FEAR after sexual abuse, rape, beatings, etc
https://youtu.be/XOxQbiDezZ4

What You Seek, Is Seeking You
https://youtu.be/r24FeUHGIog

Survival After Rape
https://youtu.be/zMJN8AwGavs

Pedophiles That Abuse Men
https://youtu.be/7vQj_DBQxUE

Inceest - Family Secrets
https://youtu.be/Lg1jIgA_4E0

Rape By Priests In The Church
https://youtu.be/VqbMVEw8Xvo

When People we love commit suicide
https://youtu.be/y7S7nSoyhoI

Wednesday, November 29, 2017

Support this channel, blog, healing videos & recovery page

Here is the link to go fund me
we will donate a portion to abused children and veterans

https://www.gofundme.com/cherish-all-children

Tuesday, November 28, 2017

Cherish All Children Youtube Channel

Here is the YouTube channel that will have all healing videos

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1YcjqaBqLujOo3aVohrPhA

Support this channel and recovery page
https://www.gofundme.com/cherish-all-children

When People Feel Suicidal, It is A Cry For Help From Massive Trauma & Pain

This page will have links, videos & ways to try to self heal. I am not a doctor, & some people need to know if they are feeling like this that they need to find a doctor or hospital, before they do anything to hurt themselves.

But millions and millions of people suffer from these thoughts, and people need to know this. There are some very dark days in life, when people do not what how to cope or what to do, & they need a life line & a way to move out of feeling like this. It's imperative to seek a support system, and people that can hear this amount of hopelessness in anyone crying out.

When any abuse has happened to us, the last thing you do is like yourself, you loathe yourself. And that is backwards. One of the reasons that predators seek out their victims to abuse, is that your qualities are so likable & admirable. Many predators are jealous of their victims & scar them so that they are not so "good" and "perfect"

It may seem impossible to reverse the thought process, but you are worth everything and need to learn to love yourself. Your predator needs to go to jail.

I believe there is always someone protecting each survivor, so that they finally one day, come into their own

Victims of abuse, trust no one, believe in no one since the people they trusted the most, either did not protect them, or were the perpetrators. You have to choose to get past that, & realize that everyone is not bad. It takes a leap of faith, and you have everything to lose if you don't try.

Video on Cutting - Self Sabotage
https://youtu.be/dwEwP5tAbMU

Teenage Suicide - When Kids Give Up As Young As High School
https://youtu.be/jmy-6HmmRQw

LGBT
https://youtu.be/gu1LFOJaP1g

Being in Too much pain
https://youtu.be/y7S7nSoyhoI

Listen To Your Soul

We know who we are before we were broken, once our confidence is broken, we stop listening. We only hear the lies someone told us, & we lack the strength to hear our own souls.

Bad days are 24 hours long, not a year long. It's when people don't help their own bad days by making themselves feel better, that 1 day turns into a week and so on. Bad days are a measure of reality, there is NO ONE that has all good days. The bad days, remind us to stay grounded & true, and not lose sight of the hard fight we have to always keep this balance.

Healing means you found a way to live past your pain, & to allow for your own right to feel well, and not be derailed by whatever was done. Pain in life happens to everyone and everything. We lose pets, people, jobs, friends, and we have to be very strong to fill those holes and gaps and still live in a way that loss & hurts do not leave us in a way that we cannot function. When he get to a place of healing, we end up always fitting our pain, in our back pockets, not in front of us, misdirecting our every day lives.

Most pains had NOTHING to do with us, we were victimized, or predators invaded our innocence, and stole from us what was our right to keep.

We have to come to a place where we face that the thieves are the ones that need to lose, we win because we have ourselves, & they chose us from our goodness and great qualities, that was how we became their prey. It was never about us, it was about them.

The Planet Needs Peacemakers, & Leaders

Success is about achieving a life you feel good in & are proud of. Society puts emphasis on material things, money, wealth, as measures of success. That is a fake life. There are people with all of the money in the world, that live a tattered miserable life, inside of mansions, full of loneliness, self loathing, & pain.

To create people that matter & make a difference, we need a society full of leaders & people that can teach love, peace, healing, happiness, and living without fear or mistrust

I Cant Be Broken - Not Any More

Being broken is a condition, it's temporary. Staying broken is a state of mind and a choice.

You Have to choose to unbreak yourself and become the survivor that lies inside you

Every single person should give themselves the RIGHT to heal, this is what you owe yourself

Predators that try to take it away, want control over you, take your life back, make them own their abuse & crimes & repair yourself into wellness

There are healing videos and links coming on to here for healing everything from toxic parents, toxic people, abuse, incest, rape, pedophilia, death in the family, loss of a pet, all of these things break us and hurt our love inside us. But we have to tell ourselves that we have a right to feel well, feel strong, and not live in a broken state.

Reality is that we can feel like giving up on a hard day, a dark day, but this is real, it's not just you that feels this way, most people feel that in raising a child, working at a job, running the country, owning a business, being married, being single, recovering from abuse, it's a natural thing to feel, the "job" is getting past that and seeing how to get inspired and feel better, meeting people that motivate us and help us past these hard times

People have impossible obstacles, and have a struggle to figure out how to live & survive, their fight is against time, cancer, disease, and they have to look at things from a very short pace in front of them, they struggle to figure this out, and don't get the recovery time to heal, sometimes they only get to live for moments, compared to our ability to heal and get older.

Strong people never have an easy life, we get lessons & a harder journey, the reason is that our calling is higher, we are leaders, and lead ourselves so we can lead others

People in pain, have a hard time celebrating, because it brings up the feelings of what they are missing, they are afraid to feel good, so they choose to always talks about their pain, and they don't think they deserve to be able to laugh and celebrate. They self sabotage, and bring themselves down, trying to think that at least they recognize misery and sadness, they feel out of place, being happy and feeling joy.

This has to change in order to allow people to celebrate their lives and their survival.

We All Deserve A Whole Beginning For Which We Form Our Lives & Beliefs

All Children deserve a safe childhood, people that love them & safety. We are desperately trying to create this & protect all children from every single type of abuse.

Children's minds are innocent, & peaceful. Fear, anger, hatred, resentment, are all created from their pain & they are too young to handle all of the things that happen to their innocent little beings.

This entire blog is about a way to move all children from pain, to wellness, and recovery, and to not spend decades of time being broken, lost, no confidence, & no will to survive.

I'ts been long overdue that we seek the remedies available, which are words, and ways to tell ourselves different thoughts about our experiences, so they do not control us for the rest of our lives.

I believe we always have someone trying to save us, and to guide us into our places.

This is one of my favorite saying ever, I live by this, and let myself be guided up, from all of the times I feel that I have hit rock bottom

No matter what happens, we have to discover our worth, if we don't see it in ourselves, others will not find it in us