Healing Ourselves As Adult & Children

People in pain, have a hard time celebrating, because it brings up the feelings of what they are missing, they are afraid to feel good, so they choose to always talks about their pain, and they don't think they deserve to be able to laugh and celebrate.  They self sabotage, and bring themselves down, trying to think that at least they recognize misery and sadness, they feel out of place, being happy and feeling joy.

This has to change in order to allow people to celebrate their lives and their survival.