We know who we are before we were broken, once our confidence is broken, we stop listening. We only hear the lies someone told us, & we lack the strength to hear our own souls.
Bad days are 24 hours long, not a year long. It's when people don't help their own bad days by making themselves feel better, that 1 day turns into a week and so on. Bad days are a measure of reality, there is NO ONE that has all good days. The bad days, remind us to stay grounded & true, and not lose sight of the hard fight we have to always keep this balance.
Healing means you found a way to live past your pain, & to allow for your own right to feel well, and not be derailed by whatever was done. Pain in life happens to everyone and everything. We lose pets, people, jobs, friends, and we have to be very strong to fill those holes and gaps and still live in a way that loss & hurts do not leave us in a way that we cannot function. When he get to a place of healing, we end up always fitting our pain, in our back pockets, not in front of us, misdirecting our every day lives.
Most pains had NOTHING to do with us, we were victimized, or predators invaded our innocence, and stole from us what was our right to keep.
We have to come to a place where we face that the thieves are the ones that need to lose, we win because we have ourselves, & they chose us from our goodness and great qualities, that was how we became their prey. It was never about us, it was about them.
